Weddings on Water

Ideas & Inspiration

John and Elizabeth Jaworek marry at his family's Lake Wisconsin cottage.

Weddings on Water

Fond childhood memories of a Wisconsin summer almost always includes sand and water, and with more than 15,000 lakes from which to choose, it’s no wonder so many couples celebrate their weddings on—or near—the water. From the aquamarine swirl of oceanic Lake Michigan to the crystal clear, fish-laden waters of northern Wisconsin, opportunities abound for a breathtaking celebration. Waterside weddings are not without their own unique challenges, but with proper planning your wedding day is sure to be unforgettable. 

David and Julie Phillips of New York decided to marry in Wisconsin, after ruling out Jamaica. Either way, Julie says, they were determined to have their event on the water. “I love Door County. I grew up vacationing there,” says Julie, a Manitowoc native. “I knew it had to be on Lake Michigan.” The couple chose Gordon Lodge, a large resort on a quiet, wooded peninsula in Door County between North Bay and Lake Michigan, largely for its sweeping views of the lake. About 60 of the 140 guests stayed there, spending free time fishing, kayaking and paddle boating.  “All of the East Coasters said it was exactly like Cape Cod without the hassle,” says Julie. “They just fell in love with Wisconsin. Lake Michigan looks just like an ocean, so expansive, a beautiful blue green. People said it looked like we were Photoshopped into the pictures!”

Their wedding planner, Carrie Baldwin of Door County Event Planners, says the picturesque and luxurious Gordon Lodge is one of her favorite spots for couples seeking a water wedding. Baldwin also loves the beachfront at Horseshoe Bay Country Club, which allows tents (not all beaches do, due to potential environmental damage). Baldwin says water weddings allow special touches specific to the unique environment. She recommends a “sand ceremony,” where the bride and groom each take sand from beaches near their respective hometowns and pour them together—an outdoor alternative to a unity candle. Baldwin also organizes stone ceremonies, where each guest is given a rock as they arrive and then, after the wedding, tosses the stones into the water along with wishes for the couple. She also uses decorative ribbon to attach the wedding programs to each seat to combat lake breezes.