Beyond the Lens: Exploring Boudoir Photography, Self Empowerment and Confidence in Front of the Camera

With over a decade of experience, C. Mae Photography (@cmaephoto) goes beyond the lens to share the details of boudoir photography, including common misconceptions, tips for loosening up in front of the camera and more.   

Q: What is the benefit of booking a boudoir session prior to the wedding day?  

Our goal is to make you feel comfortable and confident in front of the camera, whether it's for a boudoir session or your special wedding day. We understand that stepping in front of the lens can be intimidating, which is why we offer exposure therapy through engagement sessions and boudoir shoots. By the time your wedding day arrives, you'll feel like a pro, effortlessly hitting all those perfect angles.  

Q: What are some common misconceptions people may have about boudoir photography?  

One common misconception is that you must meet certain physical standards to participate. We want to assure you that boudoir photography is for everyone, regardless of age, body type or imperfections. We invite you to come to your boudoir session just as you are, flaws and all. Embrace your uniqueness and let us capture your beauty in a way that makes you feel confident and empowered.  

Clients in their 60s say "I wish I did this in my 50s". Clients in their 50s say "I wish I did this in my 40s." Clients in their 40s say "I wish I did this in my 30s." You get the point. 

Q: What advice would you give to brides who might feel nervous or self-conscious about doing a boudoir shoot?  

Embarking on a boudoir experience can feel like a leap into the unknown, but rest assured, our studio spaces are designed with your comfort and confidence in mind. We believe that every individual deserves to be celebrated through art that empowers and uplifts, reminding you of the strength and beauty within you. 

Q: Without modeling experience, what can individuals expect before and after a boudoir session? 

PRIOR TO THE SESSION: 
All our boudoir sessions begin with a free consultation. This is a great chance to connect and ask any questions you have. The session starts with a fee that secures your photo session, location and hair and makeup (shout out to our glam squad, Jennifer Janssen Bridal Artistry). We will also talk to you about outfits, prepping for your session and what to bring to your session.  
 
AT THE SESSION: 
Arrive in the biggest, comfiest sweats you have! We will start with hair and makeup right away. While you're getting glam done, I'm asking you questions that will help me tailor your photoshoot. Each person has such a different definition of what they find "sexy", their tastes and comfort level. My top priority is the client's privacy, safety and comfort. While boudoir can be a huge step out of your comfort zone, it's important to me that you feel supported the entire way.  During the photo session, you don't need to know how to pose. I will walk you through every pose from start to finish. I am tailoring poses specific to you based on our conversation during glam.  Right after the photoshoot, we review your images SAME DAY! Talk about instant gratification! This is where you can handpick out the images you want to order and if you want an album/prints.   AFTER YOUR SESSION: You're going to walk out of our studio feeling amazing. Within 3-4 weeks you'll have your chosen images delivered to you via an online gallery. If you're ordering prints, those take an additional 2-4 weeks to be made and shipped to you.   For brides, we suggest booking anywhere from 8 months prior to your wedding and no later than 2 months prior to the wedding to ensure final prints arrive on time.  The long-term effects of this experience are higher confidence and time capsule art that your 80-year-old self will thank you for. This is truly art that appreciates in value over time. And what better time to do it than right before your wedding?