Spotlight: Four-Legged Guests

Ashley Kuehnel of Midwestern Bride suggests timing their appearances outside of the main timeline: “Include them outside of the actual tight timeline festivities such as the ceremony ideally. You will be overwhelmed enough in those moments leading up to ‘I do’ without worrying about if your furry buddy will behave, if they will bark, or get anyone dirty. First look with that friend prior to the ceremony or perhaps even at your golden hour so they don't have to miss out on your day but you have more flexibility in your timing of their appearance. Have a designated dog wrangler, a short timeline, and a few select memorable photos.”

Jordyn Smokovich of Smoke Photography adds, “Dogs are family, so it only makes sense to want them included on your wedding day! If your pup is joining the fun, keep everything simple by having a dog concierge in charge of them, and bring water and treats. Plan their spotlight moment for a quick walk down the aisle or a quick photo op.”

Anderson also emphasizes that “The key to including pets without stress is thoughtful planning and gentle boundaries. At Northern Haus we recommend having a dedicated handler to care for them during key moments, keep their participation brief like a walk down the aisle or a photo cameo, and ensure they have a quiet, comfortable space to retreat afterward. Simple touches like water stations, familiar toys, and treats make the experience joyful for everyone, without disrupting the celebration.”

^{Stephanie Amaya courtesy of Saint Kate - The Arts Hotel}

Creative Ways to Honor Pets Who Can’t Attend

Even if your pet can’t physically join the celebration, there are many thoughtful ways to keep them part of the day. The team at Saint Kate - The Arts Hotel suggests, “If your pet can’t attend, honor them with a signature cocktail, a creative cake topper, or a playful nod in your décor or photo booth.”

Renee Tantillo of Renee Breanne Design + Co. encourages interactive elements for guests: “Beyond the classic nods like a signature cocktail named after them or their faces on cocktail stir sticks, there are so many creative ways to honor your furry friends. Why not turn it into a fun, interactive moment for your guests? Create custom temporary tattoos of your pets for everyone to wear once the dance floor opens, or send guests home with treat bags for their own pets as a sweet (and adorable) favor.”

Anderson adds subtle, chic touches: “For pets who can’t attend, finding heartfelt ways - like naming a signature cocktail in their honor, adding a tiny illustration or paw print to the stationery, or tucking a photo charm into a bouquet. Even a subtle cake detail or donation to a local animal shelter in their name keeps their spirit close. It’s a beautiful reminder that love, especially the unconditional kind, is always part of the celebration.”

^{Emilee Meador with Renee Breanne Design + Co.}

Paw-sitively Memorable

Including your pet in your wedding doesn’t have to be stressful. With clear communication, a dedicated handler, and creative ways to honor pets who can’t attend, your four-legged family member can be part of your celebration in a way that’s safe, memorable, and stress-free for everyone.

Main photo by Cassie Rosch with Midwestern Bride