The "first look" in the context of a wedding refers to a pre-arranged, private moment between the couple before the actual ceremony begins. During the "first look," the bride and groom see each other for the first time on their wedding day, often in their wedding attire, away from the eyes of the guests. The intimate encounter is typically orchestrated by the wedding photographer to capture the genuine emotions and reactions of the couple. Couples opting for a "first look" often weigh the desire for a special, personal moment against the traditional custom of seeing each other for the first time at the altar during the ceremony.
Navigating the intricate decisions of a wedding day involves careful consideration of traditions, emotions and logistical choices. Among these considerations, the "first look" has emerged as a pivotal moment for couples about to be married. This pre-ceremony encounter brings forth a myriad of perspectives. While some couples swear by the magic of this intimate encounter, others remain committed to the tradition of seeing each other for the first time at the altar. In this Spotlight feature, three wedding experts weigh in on the pros and cons of opting for a first look on your wedding day – shedding light on the nuanced factors that contribute to creating a memorable and meaningful wedding experience.
Olivia & Bryan McCracken, O & B Photo Co
The only moment you actually have alone together, just you two, on your entire wedding day is during your first look. It's an opportunity to let the emotions roll over you and actually be present in the moment before the day begins to fly by and you're pulled in different directions. For this reason, we believe a first look is critical. Not just for you and your spouse, but a first look for each of the other critical humans in your life - dad and daughter first look, grandma and grandson first look, even a first look with your dog! You will never regret spending a few intentional moments of one-on-one time with the individuals you cherish most.
O & B Photo Co
Heather Farr, Heather Farr Events
There are several pros to doing a first look. First, logistically it's a huge timesaver as the bulk of the couple and wedding party photos can be done beforehand. This means that the couple can actually attend their cocktail hour. Second, often times seeing each other before the ceremony calms excited, anxious nerves and also provides a very special, intimate moment. There are few moments for the couple to be alone on their wedding day and just focus on each other. This allows that moment before the happy chaos of the day begins.
The cons to doing a first look are also important to think about. Some couples feel very strongly about having that first look at the altar and want that traditional element. Another con is that you may need to get ready earlier in the day to accommodate the first look in the timeline. Sometimes lighting earlier in the day can also be harsh. Some couples do not like that they won't actually be married in their formal wedding couple portraits.
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Autumn Pershing, Autumn Silva Photography
First looks are an opportunity to help calm your nerves! Many times our couples are naturally pretty anxious and emotional prior to their long-awaited ceremony. First looks give you the chance to have a private moment together and help wash away some of those nerves. There are not many moments that you will have alone on your wedding day and this can be a great way to get some private time, exchange sweet words and an embrace before the wedding frenzy begins. They also allow you to get many of the portraits done prior to your ceremony, so you are free to enjoy your party. With all that said, if you prefer to go the traditional route, follow your intuition, you definitely know best!
Autumn Silva Photography
